'a relationship is meant to be managed, not tested'
do you agree with this statement?
i came across this sentence when watching the 一切完美2.
very meaningful and yet a deep sentence.
deep as in there is alot of meaning attached to it.
people yearn to have another half so as to fulfil their social needs according to the Maslow's Hierachy of Needs.
some feel that having the other half completes them.
they feel that they are the missing piece of jigsaw in their lives.
i agree totally.
ever since i committed myself in a relationship,
i have learnt to think of others.
i have learnt to be more expressive.
and most importantly, i have learnt how to love.
loving someone is not easy, yet not difficult.
it is so abstract that it is so hard to put in words.
those in one will know what i mean. :)
if the relationship came not easy, manage it for goodness sake.
don't ever try to test it.
manage it well by good communication.
good communication can cross many obstacles.
this is my mantra i guess. :P
testing a relationship is not healthy.
it is like u are testing your other half's love for you which is so harmful to him/her.
and both parties will not be happy too.
so why create misery?
Manage your relationship,
be managers and not challengers.
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